I have been contemplating whether to write this or not but as I research there are so many other races besides Asian-Chinese women that love to know if the Asian man-crush likes them.
Well, did you ha[ppened to feel that he is so caring about you. Asking if you have already eaten your breakfast, lunch, and dinner, ahem… and then you fall in love because he keeps texting on you… I mean checking on you…
“Have you finished your work?”, “Where are you now?”, “Are you now going back to your home?”
and a lot of others caring questions, that we as a female feel so complete with his text and call. Wow… What a romantic guy, especially when he said
“I am ready for married and I am financially stable now. I have my own house and work. I even work extra income for my future”
Can we give this man an applaude? for sure. Sorry to say this, I am an asian-chinese woman, but I dated european guy since my body figure not so much for interest of Asian-Chinese guy yet I do hope to settle down with one of them, actually. Why? Well, the above reason. If you are someone who seeking stability and home then Asian-Chinese men can provide you with that. I am not only talk about Chinese men, even Korean, Japanese, Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore and lot of other asia country too.
It is a rarity for them to leave the female hanging or jump from one female to another. I am just gonna give you the sign. It is very clear and blunt for you to be able to spot on it. They are not doing like looking for the right one or “you are not the right one for him” like many western guys will make this as an excuse to left you while he is dating another new girl that he just spot in the bar.
SIGN HE REALLY LIKES YOU AND WANT TO WIFE YOU:
- HE WILL TELL YOU DIRECTLY
He gonna asked you directly after several intense text “Do you want to be my girlfriend?” or “Do you like me?” because he knows you already, he knows you have a good career, you have a good family and you are a good daughter. That’s the requirement for him to even like you more because he is looking for a wife. He needs you to take care of his children while he is making money for you and the children.
2. HE TELL YOU ABOUT HIS INCOME, SAVING ACCOUNT AND EVEN FORMER LOVE
No secret between you two. When he told you this, he expect you to also tell him honestly so he can weigh down if you are really a worthy woman to be a mother for his children.
Well.. who want to wife someone with no clear background? No job, no career, and lots of lovers? sleeping here and there with guys. Like, for real? it is not about ‘lust’ but it is about your consistency as a valuable woman. If he want that kind of woman, he can just take it from nightclub, randomly.
3. INTENSE TEXT AND CALL
He will tell you what he is doing and what he has been up to, even though perhaps there is still secret one or two or three but he gonna tell you when you guys are official together. He just wants to make sure you are trustworthy. Calling every night and texting everyday, he is interested.
4. INTENSE FLIRTING
Exchanging photo, and then calling your sweet name. Even acting mushy and cute, like a little boy. He definitely likes you. He wanted you to take care of him too.
5. HE SHOWED YOU HIS SOFT SIDE
If he show you that he doesn’t want to lose you, believe him. If he really care about you and drink alcohol way too much when you guys fight, he wanted you very much to care about him.
Do you like him? Would you be willing to spend your time and hours with him? if yes, go get him.
This part is covering if you think that he probably like you but are not sure of it.
He seems to care but not?
He looks like care about you. Asking your well-being like where are you and all other stuff, and being so helpful but when you try to get close he seems to draw a line between you both. He doesn’t like you. He cares about you as a friend.
There are lots of females that seem to mistaken this character of Asian-Chinese guys as a playboy or flirtatious when I as an Asian-Chinese female ‘eat’ this every day. He is not being playboy but a caring person, perhaps he cares about you since he feels that you work way too hard but doesn’t much being appreciated. He feels symptahy toward you but he does not like you as opposite sex. Geddit?
All you have to do is all the sign above must be completed, before you know that he likes you or not. The clear sign is he will definitely ask you if you like him or not. So, you don’t have to burden yourself with the thinking of “Is he like me?” The sign is CLEAR