Hey girl, welcome to this section. If you come clicking on this article means that you actually single and wanted to have a boyfriend or partner. Then you are about to explore more option to meet new people which is dating app. These days is not even a taboo anymore to seek your loved one on those dating apps.
We are having diffuclty to meet new people and those online dating apps give us option to meet people that is not in our social circle. However, meeting new people could have potentially be a dangerous or may led to dissapointment.
I have been using online dating such as Tinder to chat with male stranger and build relationship with them. To me, I believe that online personality is the actual real character of the person because people dream to be someone that they really want but unable to achieve it in real life.
For example, you wanted to show your own side of emo or your own side of hobby. On dating app you can talk about yourself freely because you realise that you have no ideas who is reading and they are not even related directly to your life. Since being cautious by people asking you questions is the one reason that you are unable to be yourself in your own life. So, for me I believe what people what to show online rather than in real life.
WHAT YOU NEED TO REALIZE?
THERE IS NO TOO HANDSOME AND TOO ATTRACTIVE MAN
Not too sound to bitter, but if you find this kind of men on online dating that’s only mean you are lucky enough. Any man will be attractive and handsome for you, as long as you both have chemistry. They won’t be any handsome nor attractive when your expectation is way to high above. So, don’t expect too much on this dating app. You can expect to meet someone since and generous to you. Treat you like a real woman.
NEVER PUT YOUR HOPE HIGH
GET REAL! It’s dating app. Anyone who sign up here have lots of option to choose whoever they want to date and continue dating. The amount of people who sign up for this apps is so much, that’s also mean you will get to know lots of people so choose whom you think it’s worth your time, but never put your hope too high on someone that you barely know on this apps. As long as he doesn’t put you as girlfriend, you have every right to meet other guys.
BEING REAL MATTER
Fill out all on the bio and question with your very truth answer with that you will find your perfect soulmate. When you meet with them, try to be your best self, be a positive person and be real. Don’t be scared if they have standards. Only the people who truly know your best will appreciate you the most.
REAL LIFE MATTER
Your life matter, always focus on yourself when you seek out someone. Always make yourself as priority. It is always better to meet the person first in real life, so don’t focus on virtual dating site. Try to open to every singlepossible chances to meet the right one.
WHAT YOU NEED TO WATCH OUT?
It is hoo-man enough to seek pleasure on those online dating apps. By fact, these people have create negative vibes toward those apps. Fuck boys, con artist, catfisher and many other names for these people who lurk and ready to touch your feelings. These people often do anywhere possible to just try to have a taste of you. So, be aware of this kind of people. If necessary BLOCKED them. You need to know that even after many dates you have been going with these kind of people, theyultimate purpose is to have a taste and left the moment alone.
There are lots of fake account, like guys who pretending that they are super handsome on Tinder account and even any kind of virtual dating site. Be aware of this kind of people, they are actually using not-so-famous model picture and talked to you. There has been number of cases where this kind of stuff happening.
There is 1 case, that involve forgery account who pretend he is someone else but he showed up to meet the girl then asking for pleasure. Then the action continues as the girl hoping to meet the guy whom actually the person who asked her for pleasure. But it got caught by the police. Totally have to be aware with this type of people around.
The hidden scammer artist who pose using different picture, they normally will ask you to invest for bitcoin, insurance or financial stuff. These type of people you often see when you walk put your grocery store or MRT. There are lots of this. My take for you is to block this person immediately when you feel that you are uncomfortable talking to them. That’s the best option.
BE MY GIRLFRIEND/WIFE KIND OF GUY
I won’t say that they are hopeless romantic but they meet many of girls and have lots of option. Like to sweet talk, anything that you want to listen they will speak but at the end they may probably asked you for money or anything else that precious to you. Never sacrifice for someone who still a candidate for your future life. It is not worth it.
That will be take a good care of your well being. I have been online on Tinder and up till now still single. The guy on tinder is not very promosing or they are somehow think too highly of themselves. Like I said “too many option for them”
If you think to chase ang moh guy (caucasian guy) there are only 0.1% a good guy, the rest will either be racist or tink you are a toy because they have lots of option when coming to Singapore. Most of them are divorce, seperated, already have kids or even looking for pleasure kind of adventure. BUT, again there is also lots of good white guy who have a good job and will chase you.
Another things is because these kind of virtual dating you will have lots of chances to meet men, so does the men so when they trying to chase you and chase other girls. Never get involve into the competition of
“Who will win his heart” because he won’t value you. You won’t get what you want from him. This kind of guy, you need to throw him faraway. These type of compeition, you don’t need it. It is negative.
Competing over a man with other girls is the lowest action that a female could take. We are not born to fight over stuff, we are born to give away and sharing our care and love, that’s why we do stuff with feelings, and we carry it in our sleeves. REMEMBER THAT!